Character

What is the definition of Character–“the mental and moral qualities distinctive to an individual.”  A persons character is what is recognized and remembered.  In the society we live today I fell as if this is something people do not value or teach.  We live in a very selfish and self serving world.  I get disappointed and discouraged everyday by people’s selfishness.  I do not let it effect me negatively. I use it as a tool to teach my children  that our actions, words, etc. reflects our character.

I have a very strong code of morals, values, character and I want my children to learn this and have these as well.  It’s the simplest of things like holding the door for others,  saying thank you, smiling, allowing someone else to go ahead of you in the line when you have a whole cart of stuff and they have two items. To me this is just common courtesy  something you do not see a whole lot of today.  Thses actions reflect your character and it’s possible that someone seeing these actions will question their own character and maybe will influence them to make better choices in they ways that they project their character.

Final thought–The little things we do in life can have the biggest impacts.

 

 

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Embracing ADHD

As a parent of a child that was diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 4 I can tell you it was not easy. Those letters come with such a stigma, it is actually pretty sad. My son will be 13 in 9 days. It is fascinating to think about and see the changes and struggles we have been through these last few years. He has had teachers that have been awesome in working with us and then we have had teachers that have wanted to put him in what they call “SPECIAL CLASS”.

These children are extremely intelligent, funny and bursting with energy that we all wish we had. It is easy as a parent to become very impatient with learning how to manage the challenges. Be careful not to flood these children with negativity as this can be very detrimental. Learn what works and what doesn’t. Encourage them to face their challenges and not make excuses for themselves.