With all that has been transpiring in our country and school systems for quite some time now, its time for all of us to find our voices. As a mother of teenagers it is very difficult to see my children struggle with anxieties and fears when at school. School should be a place for our children to feel safe and to learn. Schools have become a place of uncertainty and as parents, administrators, teachers and government we must work together to repair and resolve our systems.
Traditional family dinners has morphed into families sitting at the dinner table with their faces glued to their phones. In my family we have made it a rule that there are no devices at the dinner table. In our busy schedules it’s easy to lose sight of how important that is.
When this was first implemented in my family there was slight resistance. Today it is not even a question. Dinner is a small amount of time in our day that we can remove ourselves from outside influences and distractions. It allows us to talk to each other about the day, tomorrow, something funny, etc. It really does not matter the content. The point is we are focused on each other.
As a working mom who manages businesses I can tell you if the world falls apart in 1or 2 hours because you do not take a phone call while having dinner with your family, something is seriously wrong. I do not pretend to be perfect either, I have answered calls while at dinner only to have my children give me the LOOK. Which I appreciate because it tells me they appreciate the no device policy.
Value the time we spend together and remember everything else can wait. Family time is the most important time.